Our take
For us, that's not something my husband is interested in, and I completely respect that. Every couple has different boundaries, and that's one of ours.
That said, it doesn't bother him to be intimate with me afterward. He'll still have sex with me or touch me with his hands, and if I need help getting cleaned up afterward, he's happy to help with that too. We just don't include oral as part of our dynamic. It's what we're both comfortable with, and it's worked well for us!
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