Welcome Ry!
I just wanted to weigh in and say that this an awesome beginning to what just might become my favorite thread of all time and I have been a member here for 13 years. Your writing style proves that although you may have met your future husband in english class, you were still paying attention to your lessons! I very much enjoy reading about the emotional and psychological side of things from your perspective as well as that of your husband. Of course, the sexy side of the story is important, too. That's why we're all here, right? Lol!
If you read any of my posts, you will see that although my wife and I are in an unconventional situation too, our story is completely different than yours in that she only has one other sexual partner besides me. He is a friend of mine and we actually met here on OCC long before they became lovers.
I don't want to distract from your thread but I wanted to let you know that I am enjoying your thread very much and I'll be following along as long as you keep adding to it!