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My wife and I have been having some frank conversations lately, and more experiences have been revealed.

Before we started dating, she had been fairly promiscuous as a young woman. She lived in London, UK, during some pretty relaxed times in that part of the world. Her so-called 'church groups' were really a front for a lot of free sex.

When I knew her at college, she was already going steady with one of my friends. However, there were other young men on the side. She was one of the few students to have her own transport, which opened up her life. An older guy was doing a survey among the students, and he latched onto her. They went out a few times ( I was going out with her at this stage), and clearly sex was part of the deal.

Since we married, she really got turned on to sex in her late 20s and 30s. School staff trips were laced with sexual encounters, some of which she told me about.

Swinging parties were a big turn-on for her. The guys loved to make the most of her tight body, and she was very happy about that. Our sex life picked up as a consequence.

I have no idea of numbers, which is all part of the thrill.