Even before we got married, my wife and I had already talked about this topic. We both agreed that it was fine for each of us to masturbate, as long as it didn’t affect our sex life together.
After we got married, I still watch porn and masturbate from time to time, and she knows about it. We even watch together sometimes, and if the mood strikes, we end up in bed.
Personally, I don’t think it’s a big deal at all. But I believe it’s important to respect your partner’s feelings. In a relationship, there’s no absolute right or wrong — only what both people are comfortable with and agree on.
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