Yes my wife knows. As a matter of fact she's walked in on me with my dick on my hand recently. She wasn't upset; she just wanted to see what I was looking at (no way I was going to show her that it was "russian group anal sex") lol!
We've actually discussed masturbation from early on in the relationship. And agreed it was natural; not just for me but for the both of us. The only difference is that she masturbates in bed under the sheets.
Like anything else, it's about healthy communication. It's when you're sneaky about it and say "What? I wasn't doing anything!" when caught that women can interpret it as a form of cheating.
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