Whilst at a spa day with my wife she opened up and told me that she lived in quite a repressive / misogynistic household growing up, and as a result she grew up being very ashmamed of showing her body.
She has since lost pretty much all contact with her dad - the main source of this lack of confidence. She said that she wanted to fight against this as a sort of "fuck you" to her dad and also as a bit of a feministic taking back control of her body image. In other words she wants to get the confidence to show off her body more and not see it as something to be ashamed of.
I am completely onboard with this - I want her to be more confident and liberated and I hate the idea that she'd grow up thinking and feeling a certain way because of the thoughts of a few misogynists.
But also, as someone who is extremely physically to her, and also a candaulist, the idea of her exposing herself more - especially potentially in a public place, or on camera, turns me on massively.
She came up with the idea that she'd consider doing a boudoir photo shoot for her 40th birthday (she's nearly 37 now). Her idea, but I wonder if I can subtly make any suggestions as to how this could happen?
I'm looking for other ideas of how I can help her on this journey of self discovery, maximising exposure whilst bearing mind that she isn't super body confident yet.
Can anyone help with this? Ideas on a postcard please
