I was wondering if anybody did think about or did before hand, set Sexual Limits on what can and would be done with either your wife / GF or You - before you First got into the sharing program idea?
My wife and I talked about it for along time, but never got on the subject of what was the Limit if any on what we would feel Ok with on having our other half doing it with another person?
We talked plenty of what we both thought we would enjoy seeing the other doing, like my wife with another guy or me with another women - but then we both never got deeper into the subject!
I guess we both did Assume stuff in out own mind and never came out with it and asked the other!
My wife never said a word about wanting to enjoy another women or maybe a BBC, then she never said she would be willing to take on a few guys all at the same time or in the same Hole!
So much of that stuff just over my mind and I never thought about it ever being done, but boy was I Wrong!
Some of this could have come up and been discussed before we went over to out neighbors house to check out their collections of Adult party Events they made with others, but then we didn't know at the time that we were going to get into it that same night with the neighbors! Or maybe it was me that didn't expect it to happen that fast?
For Us being married for along time and having our daughter away at College for 4 Nice Long Years gave Us the time!
Then having small hints from my wife about it would be nice if we found ways of Spicing Up and Improving our SEX life, before I would have a instant Erection thinking about it and now she has to work on it plenty before getting it in that same condition! lol
I'll go on more with my feeling and thoughts from that 1st night of wondering, after I see if anybody else had the same type of experience trying out expanding their Sexual life?
It might be different for having it done with a girlfriend instead of a wife, so I would like to hear all sides if you went thru it? Thanks
