I think I have images of every girl I have been in a relationship with except one , the further back you go the less there are and the poorer quality due to the costs involved with getting film developed back then and the quality of cheap cameras.
As the years went by people who knew me also knew that I became a keen amateur photographer and it was kind of expected that at some point the subject would come up.
I have always promised every one of them that I would never show the pictures to anyone else and I never have.
Coming from a relatively small town ( not all have been from my local area ) at least some of them know one or more of my exes so I guess they might have asked amongst themselves if my word was good on this.
There is always one question which comes up though to the point of me just waiting for it , I am always asked if they can have a look at some exe's pictures I have taken previously - if I pass this test by refusing then usually all is good.
I have also done some shoots with girls who weren't really models but either wanted some cash or just some boudoir type photos for themselves.
I never mention them to anyone but I know at least one of them has shown the shots to one of her friends because she then approached me to do a similar set for her.
I was only asked to delete everything twice , once during a breakup, but she changed her mind and once by a later partner of an exe who only guessed at their existence.
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