In the beginning, I suggest starting small by letting your wife accidentally flash a little, just enough for random strangers to catch a quick glimpse. Next, create situations where others get a chance to cop a feel—in crowded farmers’ markets, for example. My old trick was to let her walk ahead while I held both her wrists from behind, guiding us through the throng. Her breasts would brush against different guys’ arms as we moved, and I’d subtly steer her direction. Picture the quiet thrill those men felt when they registered the soft press of her chest.
Later, during sex, I’d often ask her dirty questions—details about her exes, where and when they did certain things. Get her used to talking about it; she’ll grow more comfortable with your kink over time. Once she’s accustomed, coming clean and being direct gives you the best shot at her accepting it, maybe even playing along.
I told my wife straight up in our first year together, right in the middle of that honeymoon phase when acceptance is easiest. Years later, she’s completely used to it and even takes the initiative sometimes. Good luck man, hope it all goes smoothly for you.
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