Has anyone found out?
Those of you who are swingers, poly, or otherwise non monogamous, has anyone from your “vanilla” life found out about your lifestyle? If so who and how?
For us, our families all know we’re polyamorous. It’s hard to hide when we’re always with our other couple and their kids at all the family events.
As far as non family, most of my coworkers know, because I’m not shy about talking about my wife and my gf. A few are intrigued and curious, however, only one person has been judgmental to my face about it.
All her friends know, and are happy for us, and my best friend knows. He however found out we were swingers before we became poly and automatically assumed it meant he could sleep with my wife. Now I’m not opposed to it, quite the opposite, but his assumption was wrong, and my wife has no interest in fucking him.
Can’t wait to hear your stories!
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