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A reader recently PM'd a list of questions asking specific questions regarding living in a nudist household.

A general observation that my wife and I have made over the years is that people that have discovered nudism later in life typically find it difficult to separate simple nudity from sexuality. To understand our answers properly one must keep this concept in mind. A couple of simple nudity examples is when one is nude for bathing or while changing to swimming attire or even mowing the lawn.

To answer the listed questions:

1) In textile households ... any education was the odd girlie magazine. There was no detailed anatomy viewing. In your upbringing, I imagine this was completely different?

Our parents where dedicated nudists and my sister and I have been fortunate to enjoy living nude all of our lives. At first we were weekend nudists, but after moving to the country we became full time nudists. We have enjoyed a wonderful clothsfree lifestyle through to young adulthood and our entire adult life to date. A brief synopsis of both of our nudist lives before and after we were married is shared in this story:

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When the time came, our parents openly discussed with us the changes to our bodies and attitudes. With everyone being nude and having seen our parents and adult friends in various stages of development and arousal, allowed these discussions to be frank and illustrative. This eliminated any misconceptions or false interpretations that may have been learned from the more inhibited public sources.


2) Around other family and friends ... was any mention made of the uncle with the micropenis, or the neighbor with inverted nipples, etc?

Always being nude and interacting with nude people all of the time no one made any special notice of anyones' body parts. Yes, one personally took note of abnormal features, such as large nose, big ears, skinny legs, etc. And it was rude to discuss or criticize peoples' unusual body parts, including their genetalia.


3) Were there ever guests you looked forward to seeing ... the family friend with huge boobs who preferred full body hugs? Or the cute neighbor with incredibly long nipples?

Many nude guests were welcomed to our homes, some on a regular basis. A few "celebrity" guests occasionally made some highly anticipated appearances. We looked forward to their arrival, not to see their body parts, but to share stories of their celebrity. And also because there was usually a small party held during their visit. During greeting hugs and party dancing incidental contact with someone else's parts would often occur. No one ever took special notice of any of these types of contacts.


4) How was sex and pleasure handled ... upon completion ... swollen body parts, wetness, aren’t easily concealed. How was walking around with a sign that some sort of pleasure activity had recently wrapped up dealt with?

In our households no one either hid nor discussed their private sexual activities with others. However, all of our sexual activities were conducted in private. When we finished ( or were interrupted ) we merely cleaned up as best we could and proceeded normally. No one ever made special notice of a waning erection or raised nipples, or their casuse, as they were considered natural and normal body functions and did not require concealment. A few times, if we had been interrupted, the person asked if they should return later.


5) For a couple kissing on the couch in a textile home, all visible signs of arousal are hidden. But in a nudist house, it could be rather embarsssing if others were to walk in and see a visible erection or rather erect nipples.

At my home my girlfriend and I seldom engaged in arousing kissing and petting, as we wished not to offend my more conservative parents. However, during our many parties, especially if kissing while slow dancing, we would both get visibly aroused. No one ever took special notice as long as we didn't flaunt it and the condition waned reasonably quickly.

At my girlfriend's home things were different, as her more liberal parents encouraged their daughters to experiment with light ( non-penetrating and no ejaculation ) sexual activity. There, in the semi-privacy of the rear patio lounges or her bedroom ( with the door always open ) we often engaged in passionate kissing, petting and even light oral sex. We were sometimes interrupted but, as always, no one made special mention of our affectionate behavior or aroused body parts. This story explains:

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