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Originally Posted by curiousgirl16
Hello… American girl living in Germany with German husband. I’ve only gone to the textile free sauna once with my husband, and I guess you could say I had an out of body experience. I’m a really really shy girl so my coping mechanisms kicked in and really kind of made it so it all felt like a fever dream afterwards. The day we went to the sauna, 90% of the patrons were men over the age of 60. Some of the time it would just be here and I in a sauna, and then some older man. Which I actually didn’t mind —But ever since that day, I’ve been fantasizing about going back again, perhaps on my own. I’m a really possessive/territorial person so I think going with my husband is a little too much for me. Not to mention how hard it is for me to not see it in a sexual way given my American upbringing. Anyways, I guess I’m coming here to live vicariously through all of the stories , and also get a sense for how normal it is for a young women to go to the sauna by themselves. I’m 23. And a shy exhibitionist.
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If this is real (almost sounds more likely written by the husband) i understand what you mean about the first time. My first time i was sitting with my wife with our feet in a cold soak and a Father/mother/teenage daughter all came in stripped down 3 feet in front of us and went in to a tiny steam room together and my head almost exploded with how foreign of an experience it was. My wife enjoys the spas but if I lived in germany i'd be hitting an aufguss at least once a week. It quickly doesn't seem crazy anymore and once you can actually relax with the whole experience it ruins clothed spas for you. There isn't a spa in the states at any cost that is nearly as enjoyable as a very average Bavarian experience.