Paying attention
We had a similar experience our first time out with my SO in a sheer top. A young guy as our waiter and he never even peeked in her direction. But it was a big busy place and the lighting was a bit dim. Don’t give up 😁
Try a quieter place, and when you get the response you like go back again- we had a favorite waiter we asked for at an Italian place and he loved to see us come in. If you like sushi, sit at the bar in front of the chef(s). They’re only a few feet away and the lights tend to be bright- they get a terrific view!
The sweater is a good idea, and gives a lot more control to your wife in case of kids or your inlaws being at the next table👍
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