3! One in college and two from her work.
The body count is low, but what makes it hot for me is i know the people from her work.
I don't know much about the college guy except she took the first chance to lose her virginity after leaving home. Also she was long fascinated with her friends talk about blowjobs and wanted to give someone one. And she picked the first guy who was nice to her and she felt safe with. Nothing more there.
Now, at work there were two. i have met her colleagues many times and i always wonder if those two still remember her naked. They are her same age, joined the workplace right after college and bonded over their newness in the city. There were other people in the circle too. Started out as friends, going out on weekends. During a longer vacation, they stayed at a bed and breakfast. The first night, the girls shared a room and the guys another. The next night, after some drinking and dancing, some of them started pairing up and my wife says she and this other guy were the only ones left behind. They started talking and she could sense the guy really wanted it and she went along more out of pity. It was awkward for her afterward, as the guy clearly liked her more (or wanted more sex). But she was put off by his energy and stopped it altogether.
The second was a sales guy who she was genuinely attracted to and probably hoped to get into a relation with. I haven’t been able to pry out all the details, but i know she let him have sex with her on the first date. (I didn’t get to till the 2nd lol!). And at one point, she let slip that he was her first experience with car sex. Anyway after a few months, she realized he was not serious and was only in it for the ‘benefits’. They still went on for a year before he broke up. She doesn’t like to talk about him even though she knows i get turned on by her past. Still how do i know they must have had plenty of sex? Because when i met her, she already had an IUD implant.
This guy made her get one because he doesn’t like to use a condom. This is again my deduction because soon after we met, she had it removed and I was using condoms. So it couldn’t have been her idea to get it. That turns me on that the guy just liked bareback sex and filled her up for a year.
She isn’t much of a story teller and I put most of these pieces together over many years by prompts like ‘what was your first blowjob experience’ whenever she’s in a kinky mood and we are flirting. I always fantasize there would have been a few one-night stands along the way that she wants to forget about. For now, this is what I know.