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Originally Posted by kajuk
I would like to hear from others in sexless marriages—how did you handle it?
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I handled it by eventually divorcing her.
I married the homecoming queen, a very pretty girl with a great body who, before we got married, was happy to flop down and fuck any time, anywhere, sometimes in pretty dangerous situations (like getting busted by parents, etc). I thought I'd hit a home run marrying a smart, very attractive girl who certainly put on the appearance of liking sex as much as I did. But as soon we got married it was if a switch got flipped to the "OFF" position. We did not have sex on our wedding night (she claimed she'd drank too much champaign) and it was all downhill from there. A complete bait-and-switch. But being young, stupid, and very much in love with her, I stuck it out for 20 years before kicking her still very shapely ass to the curb.
Skipping a bunch of drama I then met and married a 40-year old big titted blonde who loved to fuck and still does. Been married to her for over 25 years now and she has been a great wife and a great mother to our blended family. We're in our mid-60s now and she still sucks my cock a time or two a week. The peace, support, and stress relief she brought to my life has been immeasurable.
Some women simply don't understand that men. need. sex. Some do understand but just don't care, and will force their marriages into celibacy anyway. They got their couple of kids and a house, and the husband becomes an afterthought, which they won't even bother with anymore. It's incredibly damaging to marriage relationships.
There's a YouTube channel called
The Happy Wife School which is hosted by a woman who was doing the same thing to her husband before finally figuring it out and saving her marriage. The comments sections to her videos are filled with hopeless, hapless men who have stayed for decades in sexless marriages, who feel they can't leave without giving up half the assets they worked their entire lives for.
Also check out videos by
Bettina Arndt, a clinical psychologist who is an advocate for men. She also describes the sexless marriage very accurately.
Finally, for those of you guys who struggling with this, check out a book by Robert Glover titled
No More Mr. Nice Guy. Chances are good that you'll be reading all about yourself as you work through his material.