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Originally Posted by 4cali
Out of the four of us, he’s the most reserved. The banter sort of stops when it’s just him and I. But maybe you’re right. Find a way to bring it up. Thing is we all have hesitation. My wife has flat out said she’d never do it so I’d be hesitant to outright ask. I think she’d be jealous I wanted someone else as if that’s to say I’m unsatisfied with her. Or she is concerned it would ruin our friendship. I’d be open to testing the waters with someone met online or something but she only gives any inclination of horniness towards others when it’s them. I think I might just need to enjoy the idea and accept it’s never gonna happen. But I suppose they say “never say never” for a reason.
I think I’m more “online” than any of them so I see instances of stuff like this all the time. They think it’s this invisible line you just can’t cross and I just feel like we’d have a good time.
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I get the safety of keeping it a fantasy. It seems like you are having fun with it and you dont have to worry about blowing it that way.
But I can tell you this just by reading your story: your friend is thinking most of the same things that you are thinking. I mean, all guys think that way when put in a situation like this... let's be real. You dont have to jump right into propositioning him and his wife for a couples swap. But imagine the thrill you'd get just by telling him "you'll never believe it but my wife told me that she's fantasized about a threesome with you!" It would certainly boost his ego and then you judge where to take the conversation from there.
You don't have to, but as someone who has taken the risk on a somewhat similar situation and had it pay off, I can tell you that it was worth the risk to find out and quite a rush doing it in itself.