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Originally Posted by RXDr3111
Seems that you owe it to yourself, your wife, and your friend to have a conversation between you and him soon. You all four have been teasing it for a while like you each want something to happen but everyone is afraid to make the first move. It seems like at this point its out there enough for you to at least bring up the possibility of *something* between the 4 of you happening to him, just to see where he stands. Maybe he shoots in down and rhe dream is over, but more likely it sets the stage for things to progress at least somewhat. Regardless, if your mind has gone there, his has gone there as well.
Just my two cents, if they are worth anything to you.
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Out of the four of us, he’s the most reserved. The banter sort of stops when it’s just him and I. But maybe you’re right. Find a way to bring it up. Thing is we all have hesitation. My wife has flat out said she’d never do it so I’d be hesitant to outright ask. I think she’d be jealous I wanted someone else as if that’s to say I’m unsatisfied with her. Or she is concerned it would ruin our friendship. I’d be open to testing the waters with someone met online or something but she only gives any inclination of horniness towards others when it’s them. I think I might just need to enjoy the idea and accept it’s never gonna happen. But I suppose they say “never say never” for a reason.
I think I’m more “online” than any of them so I see instances of stuff like this all the time. They think it’s this invisible line you just can’t cross and I just feel like we’d have a good time.