We did the math
The other night I asked my wife if she could substantiate her claim that she'd had about 200 sex partners, and this is her reasoning:
In the five years between her divorce and us meeting, she chose about 2 or 3 new partners each month. By then she was in her late thirties/early forties, an extremely attractive, well educated, mature and successful businesswoman. Then another 1 or 2 new ones each month over the next four years after we met but before we married. So, for that first five years, 60 months with 2 or 3 new guys each month is 120-180. Then for the next four years, 48 months with 1 or 2 is about 48-96, which ended when we married. Adding up for all nine years of freedom, she scores somewhere between 168 and 276, not counting her two husbands and a few rolls in the hay before her first marriage. She can put names to about 60, recalling name, time and place, and sexual details. That's the 56 or so number reported earlier in this thread, but she had always told me there were many more, perhaps totalling around 200. Well, 200 is between 168 and 276, so that's probably about right.
She doesn't think this number is odd at all. Figuring that married couples usually have sex about 3 or 4 times a week (I agree; that's how my first marriage was, and she says hers was too), nine years is about 4680 fucks. Instead of fucking one man that many times the way a faithful wife would do with only her husband, she divided those 4680 fucks among 200 men, having sex with each one 2 or 3 times before moving on. Which again she felt was just about right.
So, after working the numbers, it's reasonable that an attractive sexually active female could have 200 partners over nine years while single. Why not?
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