My first really serious g/f was def my mrs robinson. I was naive, we dated on and off over 5 years. After our final breakup, we remained good friends for decades. Maybe I was too immature, but we competed on everything, school, sex, golf, racquetball, even driving. It was the competing that was overwhelming for us. I drove us up to northern mi to go golfing, and averaged over 90 mph, this was in the old 55mph days. 2:45 to get us there. 5 years after we broke up, she called to tell me she did it in 2:30.
Then there was the ex wife. I knew a month before the wedding I was making a huge mistake, but refused to cancel the wedding. She said this about herself, she was a psycho B. She really was mentally unstable. Her cousin and I stayed friends for several years, and he dropped a bombshell on me one day. Apparently she finally came out that her dad had sexually abused both of his daughters, and things began to make sense. Best advice I got from a close friend going into the divorce, make a list of all the reasons I was filing, and keep it with me at all times. At the court house, she was begging me to stop the divorce. i pulled my list out, and told my lawyer to continue.
BUT, all this led me to being with the most wonderful, intelligent, and gorgeous wife that I wish we could have 50 years with her
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