[GRITS]

MRS Grits here............ in HS we liked boyfriend swapping. We would swap boyfriends in same room sex for fun. We as sisters didn't have sex, we just swapped boyfriends, or enjoyed 2 guys @ once.
It went from there, and I hooked up w/ friends that are now our long time "swing group". I met my husband thru them, as one time he was an invited guest. I was the only single in the group, everyone else was married. So when I would go to our meeting, I was the extra girl to have fun with.. lol One night hubby was invited to be a guest, (which has to be approved by everyone), and we met. Weird for most, but it worked for us... we were both swingers before we got married which was perfect and left no surprises for anyone. Its the way to do it if you can... thats why we don't have any problems with being & having our "select" groups for me & him (male & female) to play w/ as long as we both know-- who ,what ,where, when & how to each other. No secrets.
Thats why my sister and I still swap husband on visits.. she never got into the swing thing like I did.. she limits it to swapping just OUR husbands when we visit.. she is 2 states away in SC. Her husband was reluctant @ first, but got into it when he realized we were limiting it to just us.. A little variety once in a while keeps them happy together. Hubby & I are more into the variety, though we have sex almost every day. We look at it as "just sex" not love when it comes to variety & swinging... our sex is more love. I only love him , for him being him and being open minded like me.. it was a good match.