Hind sight makes it easy
It’s easy to look back and say “if only I had….”
I too married a great lady that turned out to be twice the woman I was expecting.
However pound for pound she was still the easiest woman to get along with, a great mother to two amazing kids who have grown into amazing parents themselves. Much because of her.
I think if I would have stayed more active with her and not let her get so heavy. Appreciated what we had and not let her get so insecure about herself. We would have been fine. We had issues but minor in comparison to most. 28 years
The two serious relationships since have had there great moments.
however:
One was my true love for sure, that I ran off with but she then ran off with someone else the first time I stood my ground on an issue, so what goes around comes around. 7 years
(She has been engaged three times since so perhaps it wasn’t just me)
The current partner is bat shit crazy…! But I am half a million dollars committed to riding it out and getting too old to start once more. 8 years and counting the days.
Choose wisely, and commit to making it work. The grass may be greener on the other side of the fence - but the shit still needs mode!
Now I’m knee deep in the weeds.
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