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Originally Posted by Hereforfun
Here is how I see it, this is also my fantasy, but she will be in the center of it. She will set the pace and we discuss everything before hand. If we start with one guy over to just masturbate with, then we set rules on if he can touch or not, what type of touching, etc. IF we reach the level of gangbang, we will discuss beforehand how many guys, what is allowed, where, etc. Communication is most important
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We only have had one drunken night where things got out of hand but since we do this for extra fun and adventure we laughed it off and learned to be more careful when drinking and having fun with more than one person. As far as safe words and rules we find it easier to spend more time up front vetting people and because of that we have not had a single adventure gone bad. The most important thing is to make sure you both want this and it is for fun or you will end up divorced. Do your talking before and afterwards with each encounter and be honest about how you feel so you learn something each and every time. Again good luck!!!