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Originally Posted by Marquis De Shady
Very sound advice.
We do not partake; but have met and chatted with swingers. According to them, you've got to set predetermined boundaries, have "safe words", "exit strategies", etc...
A friend of mine failed to set boundaries, and found herself getting gangbanged. Psychological damage ensued. You can't turn back the clock if regret ensues. It might sound exciting but the reality of it might not be so.
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Here is how I see it, this is also my fantasy, but she will be in the center of it. She will set the pace and we discuss everything before hand. If we start with one guy over to just masturbate with, then we set rules on if he can touch or not, what type of touching, etc. IF we reach the level of gangbang, we will discuss beforehand how many guys, what is allowed, where, etc. Communication is most important