Letting do as she wants.
When we were about 25 and had been married about 6/7 years I asked her if she ever wanted sex with another man, she said she fantasied at times but hadn't gone further than that , I made it clear to her I was happy to see her taking the next step if she wanted, it was 5 years later before she took that step, in her own time and in her own way, after the first time there was no stopping her, she has been having sex with other men ever since, she is now 77 and still has a guy that fucks her when he can , so take your time and go at her pace , let her make the rules and do it the way she is happy with, get it right and you will have a lifetime of fun , get it wrong and you will probably be in the divorce court, good luck.
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