Agreed. My wife and I discussed a similar subject with my brother's wife last night by phone. The subject started after my recollections to her and how much I enjoyed her company my last two visits but visiting with her my last visit was a total eye opener. Not just the nudity, her responses and demener during. According to my brother this is her personality at home now. My wife is still reserving her opinions till she witnesses her in person.
Most of my information about her change is coming from my brother but some from my last interactions. She was raised to believe nudity was some sort of sin and was judgemental of anyone who did not conform to her standards. My wife caught a lot of her criticism over the years from her attire, to her natural desire to be close to everyone. I call it my wife's huggy touchey personality. Lack of bras or underwear brought her wrath about my wife. Too much cleavage. I could go on and on. I understand being raised conservative with conservative values. I just never understood her desire for everyone around her to conform to her judgemental thoughts.
My brother said he has been slowly introducing her to his way of thinking but eventually got to the point that he gave some ultimatums. During that time he explained about how he was raised and his faith that does not judge others or himself. Same as mine. Through this was a slow progression of change according to him. The biggest change was a discussion they had after her sheer underwear experience in front of dad. My brother believes it's very difficult for her to defend a judgemental attitude when she's practically naked. When she realized how much her attitude change positively effected her marriage and my brothers desire for her, he thinks that was a milestone moment.
In our last discussion Monday, he said she has all the hangups most women have about their bodies. He says she's trying to compare hers to my wife's. Her hangups according to him. She has a slight belly, her boobs sag more, her butts fat, her hips are too wide. His response was my compliments about her and he added more with detailed descriptions. Her response was I was being nice. I text him several detailed compliments with details after the call to show her my thoughts of pussy, ass, tits and nipples. I've not heard back.
To echo the last post sentiments. I've witnessed several occasions of no one on a topless beach topless. My wife removes her top. Within a short period of time women or couples move closer and remove their tops. Within hours there's many around toples or just pulling their top down or just putting their top on and off. Sometimes it just takes one. I just see my wife's free spirit as a bonus to our relationship. My brother is wanting something similar.
On a funny note, my sister showed up for a visit with dad and caught him naked. He refused to dress. After exhausting all her attempts to get him to cover she left. She called both my brother and me saying she thinks dad's got dementia. We both responded similar. He's just doing what he wants and to call him before visits first.
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