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We recently recieved a great PM from a reader of our stories. Our reader thanked us for our stories and enjoyed reading them, especially "the sexy wife stories when she was swinging".

Julie wanted to point out a possible misconception that some our readers may have come away with after reading of her sexual adventures. In her youth she had considerable experience with swinging as a nonparticipating hostess at her partents' sex parties and says that what she did was not swinging but merely sexual experimentation.

BACKGROUND

Before Julie and I married we discussed our roles as life partners, including commitment, emotional love, desires and intimacy issues. Firstly, we both enjoyed and would continue living as nudists. And most importantly, we agreed that there would be absolutely no secrets between us. The acceptance and support of each others' needs was paramount in preserving our mutual happiness. All personal desires as well as past and future experiences would be disclosed, not for judgement but for understanding and compassionate support. Because we agreed not to judge the others' actions, forgiveness was not expected, only understanding and reassurance. These were not hollow words, we both actually meant it and swore to live by these commitments.

Julie had really enjoyed the "Fooling Around" sexually with her previous boyfriends and she wanted to continue the practice after marriage. We didn't have an "open marriage" but we understood she had physical and sexual needs that could only be explored and satisfied with the help of others. There would be no emotional love or commitment with her partners, merely "advanced flirting", exploration, training and fulfillment of her curiosity. She would do this only after careful consideration, so she wouldn't regret her actions. But she did want my understanding and support. She believed that in the long term it would make her a better wife ( it did ).

Though not eager to share her with other men, I agreed because had I rejected the idea out of hand she would have done it anyway and that would lead to marital difficulties later.

THE ENCOUNTERS

The first nine years of marriage were uneventful, though Julie did enjoy nude full body hugs, close dancing and a little groping with some of our male friends. We occasionally participated in a little "Fooling Around" with our nudist friends during after dinner socializing and drinks. Mostly dare games involving petting and light genital "kissing".

Then one year while I was on travel for months at a time, Julie decided to satisfy her curousities and experience some of her fantasies. That summer she participated in several of her sister's weekend sex parties and ended up fucking over 20 different men and sucked off several more.

That story: https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...postcount=1137

Per our agreement, we discussed these encounters and put them behind us in order to pereserve our marriage. Afer all, these trysts had been purely sexual and there was no emotional love with her partners. And now these memorable experiences are part of our Living Nude Stories.

We consider Julie's solo participation in these events as fitting her definition of exploring and quenching her sexual curiosity. And not swinging.