Yeah...my experience with "FWB" has not been a very good one.
I had become very good friends with a beautiful young lady some years ago. We were both single at the time and hung out all the time. One night we went out, got drunk...and started making out. We ended up back at her place and had all kinds of sex. After that, we started routinely fucking. We were friends with benefits. The sex happened after we'd already been friends.
The problem was that I started developing feelings. She did not. I was squarely in the "friend zone." We had a few arguments; and she ultimately decided to end the friendship. We actually do keep in contact from time to time - and we're both married; but to me it's very bittersweet.
Invariably one of the parties will start developing feelings; and that's when you run into trouble. Unless both parties happen to be on the same page.
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