My own 2 cents
Agree 100%
Not that I’ve not had a few one night stands in my day, but in general, I don’t really enjoy them due to the lack of any real emotional connection with the person.
I was devastated when I broke up with my wife 25 yrs and the preceding partner 8yrs.
I entered into my current relationship and found it very satisfying until a couple rather heated arguments at year 5 and she said things I could never unhear.
We discovered at a couples sexual workshop - that if she really wants great sex she would pick some complete stranger so she could really let loose.
I am the opposite I need someone to truly trust in order to really let loose.
Since the arguments (not related to the workshop) we have mended our partnership as far as living arrangements but after hearing her derogative sabotaging comments I have had little desire to perform sexually with her ever since and we are three years on… I’ve lost my trust.
I have lost the emotional connection we once shared… game over.
At this point We share a mortgage, period .
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