[Right_In_There]

You know, I've heard it said countless times that sex for men is physical and for women it's emotional-as if we think with our dicks and they think with their hearts. I think this is utter bullshit. I think that men can be just as emotional and romantic as women can be. And turn it round, women can look at sex as just a completely raw, physical, "fuck me" sort of thing as men can. It all depends on the individual. Proof of this is my current wife, with whom I had a very deep and meaningful romance. I took her virginity, then gave her 3 kids. She passed up many guys that she could have just fucked, but waited for me because I was somebody that really loved her for who she was, and didn't just want to get in her pants. Fast forward 3 kids later, she started fucking random guys for the sheer sexual thrill of it, and not only that, she didn't even know these guys from Adam.

I had a friend that used to tell me that men were sexual and women were romantic. I always told him that was just bullshit. I was on a forum at the time that had plenty of men and women on it, and I took a poll and asked people if they thought that was true. The great majority of people said that it all depended on the individual. I agreed. One woman even answered and said, "hell, I'm a woman, and I don't know ANY women that are romantic!". Not only do I agree, but I've actually know more men that are really romantic than women, and that get their hearts broken real hard over a breakup, a lot harder than any woman would. My wife used to be romantic, but that's all over with. In fact, I think being romantic for a lot of women is basically just a put-on.

Me, I'm more on the emotional/romantic side, but there's definitely a very physical side to me, too. I've been hurt so many times that I'm not sure I have any romanticism left though, unfortunately.

Btw, I'd really like to see a lot more threads like this.