My other biggest specific turn on, which doesn’t really show up in pictures, so it’s only a real life thing, is deciding on a particularly deviant kink that I would like my partner to enjoy, telling her about it, and then having her actively, knowingly, and eagerly participate in gradual training to build that kink.
Currently, I have decided that I would like my girlfriend to have a dirty underwear kink, to the point of sniffing mine and masturbating with them when she’s home alone. I told her I want to build that kink, and from time to time, I plan out specific play activities for that, and tell her ahead of time that we will be working on reinforcing her underwear kink, to help her build a craving for my dirty underwear.
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