Quote:
Originally Posted by pagefault
Consensual non-consent
|
My wife is into that, but not by traditional definition. It's tough for me, though. For her, it comes across as she has my consent ahead of time, and when she says no in certain situation, she really means no, but she doesn't want me to listen to her and wants me to go ahead anyway.
If she says no and means it and I do stop, she gets upset. If she says no and means it and I do it anyway, she goes wild.
An example would be if we are around friends or in public and I slide my hand up her inner thigh to the point that people can see up her skirt. She will say no and try to stop me, and she really wants me to stop, but if I do, she gets upset later. If I don't stop, she is upset in the moment for exposing her, but it really turns her on so much later.
I personally don't like it. I haven't done it in many years, but it was huge with her several years ago. She realized she liked it when an ex fucked her against a wall in the kitchen with guests a few feet away around the corner. She told him to stop and he didn't, and she didn't actually want him to stop, but she just didn't want to seem like a dirty skank if they got caught so she said stop, and she was so glad that he didn't stop.