I'm a photographer. Very few women will go nude in their first photoshoot. Best to test the water first with glamourous dresses, high heels and lingerie. If she enjoys it go further next time.
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Originally Posted by Pearoak
How do I get my wife to agree to a naked boudoir shoot?
Background: we've done lots of public nude beaches and spas. For a long time, she wasn't keen on public nudity but has become more relaxed over time. The main reason this works is because of the freedom being nude rather than anything overtly sexual, although this is also a factor. She has started wearing thong bikinis and has been naked / topless in front of family members. We've never done anything more risky outside of the bedroom. She can be talked into risqué things, but her initial reaction is often negative.
Is the best approach to start with something mild (but risk her not enjoying it and it never being repeated) or going straight in for the full nude shoot (if she would ever agree to it)? I would like to be in a situation that starts 'safe' but, with her consent, ramps up to something with extreme exposure. I would also be interested in a couples shoot, and would even want to involve full penetrative sex (but I think the chances of that are zero).
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