[TeslinW]

Originally Posted by twowide

Just wondered. How many so-called "happily married women" shelter behind a Gold Wedding Band ? Yes, it's worn as camouflage when family & friends are around. But as soon as the arrive within the vicinity of their "Bull", OFF comes the ring ! Now, they're "Single Women Out on the Spree" ! Ready, willing and able to do anything and everything, at HIS DEMAND !

That's an interesting perspective but very limiting. Does a woman need the subjugation of a man? In our case the ring is merely an indicator of our relationship and it doesn't come off at playtime. We both enjoy our playtimes together with others or each playing on our own with others. It's all completely straightforward and honest. There is no camouflage or a propensity to do anything at someone else's demand. Certainly we don't do anything we don't want to do. As for anyone not involved, it's none of their business.