Following on from the end of my initial post I mentioned that I may have screwed things up by opening my mouth when maybe I should have just said nothing instead so will do my best to explain the situation and hopefully see what you guys n girls think I should do .......This is over a month ago now and he hasn't looked at my phone since although that's more because of circumstance than opportunity but the last time my dad handed me back my phone ( Iphone ) and had somehow pressed search at the bottom of the screen by mistake and was now consequently showing a different screen he had no idea how to get out of and handing back to me with a flustered look saying "oh I don't know what I'm doing with this" , I just took the phone and tapped the albums symbol which went straight to the cluster of naughty thumbnail pics of my wife so now knew 100% for definite he looks at her pics each time he browses through my phone and guess he just panicked with my phone as tbh he really doesn't know how to use it properly , he didn't see what I did with the phone so had no idea what I had seen and here is where I think I may have ruined things ...........I decided to act a little embarrassed asking him how far had he scrolled back in the pics if he had come across the pics of my wife in her dressing gown , I physically see his body language change and a look come across his face like a child gets when they have done something naughty and are about to be told off for it as he replied that he had not seen them ( I know he had ) but asked why to which I openly told him she was naked and flashing in some of them and thought he might have seen them as I had forgotten to delete them, he tried to remain composed as he further denied seeing them but with a slight hint of excitement said "oh you been taking some rude ones then , we've all been there " , I'm not sure what he meant by the last bit of that but I did say yes I had taken a few and again said I thought he must of seen them to which he again denied saying "no no that's private" , now I'm guessing one of two things or maybe even both , 1 that he was trying to be a gentlemen and spare my blushes or 2 Thought he was in trouble for looking at pics of the wife's pussy !!
With the phone still in my hands and while still talking to him I scrolled to last building works photo before her pics and leant over towards my dad handing him my phone of which he took from me without hesitation as I said " if you would like to look at those pics I took of her keep swiping that way" and swipe he did as he asked with a little bit of a shake in his voice as well as his hand as he continued to swipe slowly " you want me to see these pics " knowing full well he was already staring at them again already , I should of just said yes and hope he likes them but instead now wondering if I had overstepped the mark I replied " I will leave that up to you I thought you had seen them anyway so looking at them again wouldn't make any difference " to which his response was to quickly swipe back through the phone in the opposite direction trying to make out he wasn't just looking at them again whilst say " no no I haven't seen them that's private " and to be truthful I think left us both feeling a little embarrassed as we just made small talk for a little while pretending the situation had not happened
I think I may have ruined a good thing by saying something or not saying the right thing at the right time and leaving the whole situation a little awkward , ultimately I would love for my dad to be able to look at all the pussy and flashing pics of my wife that he wants to and know he has my blessing to do so without hiding the fact , not sure if that will ever happen that way but would love to try for him to enjoy her pics again somehow just not sure how to go about it ??
Any advice or thoughts on how to proceed achieving this will be greatly appreciated
