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Originally Posted by barnyb
If you are a solid 7 or 8 girl, when you grow up you realise that all the guys look at you. You adjust your dress to attract more and more looks. Whilst you might complain about 'dirty old men' you actually get a lift out of the attention.
If you then go to a naked resort, you are fully aware that you are naked and guys will be attracted to you. You play the game of plausible deniability, but you are fully aware that all the eyes are on you. If you sit fully naked in front of 3 guys in a sauna, that is nothing but a full on exhibition. But remember you enjoy it and they enjoy it and your boyfriend gets a good time when back in the hotel room.
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I completely agree with the part “you are fully aware that all the eyes are on you”. But not with the exhibitionism part.
I am not sure where are you from, but we have sauna culture where nudity is compulsory in sauna. We do not have anything like public sauna where you can have swimsuit. No swimsuit allowed anywhere. (Quite a different from a nude resort or a nude beach. You can go to a clothed resort or a nude resort, clothed or nude beach. Depending on your preferences.) But when you want to go to a public sauna in my country, you must be nude. We do not have anything like “clothed” saunas.
People who are shy can be covered in towels or bedsheet, but not swimsuit. And I am not sure if you have ever tried, but being completely wrapped in a bedsheet in sauna is crazy. There is more than 100 °C in some saunas, the bedsheet becomes wet very fast, you are sweating a lot and it is quite awful. This is the reason, why many girls are naked. Not because they are exhibitionists. Exhibitionism is a desire or compulsion to expose oneself to strangers for sexual satisfaction. They are naked because being completely wrapped in sauna is awful. Of course, the girls are fully aware that all eyes are on them, but it is not sexually satisfying for them. They just deal with it.
This is the case of my girlfriend. She is naked in sauna, because being wrapped is very uncomfortable. She is fully aware that guys are looking at her. (And she understands it, she and also some of my female friends admitted that they are also checking naked guys.) But she is not exhibitionist, it is not sexually satisfying for her. She is just not shy and does not care. To arouse herself, she needs something else than exposure. On the other hand, she likes the fact, that it is exciting for me.
So: Not every girl, who is naked in front of guys is exhibitionist.