A looong time ago from about mid 2012 to early 2013 my now wife (then girlfriend) who I had been with for about two years since late 2010 at that point still occasionally texted with her ex-boyfriend from before me, as I discovered by snooping on her phone with the unlock code she didn't think I knew (I know, I know, not the most noble behavior, but what can I say, I'm no saint).
They didn't text consistently or anything, not daily or even weekly - there was often a month or even two between exchanges; I was able to read through the entire correspondence in less than half an hour. But he would occasionally send "I'm thinking about you" type messages, send her dick pics, tell her he was thinking about her, ask her what she was wearing etc and she would tease him back by telling him to think about her while he strokes his cock or reminiscing about times she blew him or they fucked before meeting me. He asked her for a nude and she sent one "naked" pic but it was shoulders up in the bath with no nudity visible.
If she had actually seen him or made plans to see him I would have confronted her about it, of course. But she specifically turned down his couple of explicit attempts to arrange meetups by saying she couldn't because she had a boyfriend now and their correspondence ended with her saying they couldn't text anymore because her relationship (with me) was now very serious and that was where it ended. I checked her phone occasionally over the months and years and she never texted with him again.
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