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Originally Posted by dandd
My dad and I are into a lot of the same stuff and have the same tastes. He takes good looks at my wife, but nothing too obvious. I've been recently thinking of "accidentally" showing him some pictures of my wife. I'll let him decide how much he wants to see.
But he has known my wife for many years. Do you think he would want to see his daughter in law or would that be weird? Should I keep the photos tame or go for it? I know my dad and I'm sure he would look I just don't want to make it awkward.
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Your situation sounds almost identical to mine in every way and the same here for me its something I want to do but don't want things to end up awkward and uncomfortable , I have managed to go as far as strategically mixing a few nude pics of my wife in between other pics on my phone and then letting my dad have a scroll through the normal pics knowing he is going to come to the ones of my wife very shortly , although I can't see the screen when he's looking I can tell when he's reached my wife's ones knowing roughly how many swipes of the screen to her pics it is he stops swiping the screen and goes back n forth between 3 or 4 photo's for a bit while making small talk then if I go to get up he suddenly panic swipes about 20 times so they are off the wife pics then slowly works his way back to them again once I have sat back down , I have done this a couple of times now but only just recently and each time afterwards he hands the phone back pretending he didn't see them and I take the phone back pretending I don't know he was looking at them ,it gives me a buzz letting him see her pics (unaware) so to speak but I would just love to say to him would you like to look at my wife your daughter in laws pics and if you do I will enjoy showing you them but not sure in reality if one I have the balls to just come out with it and do that and if I did would he say yes please and look at them knowing I'm happy for him to look or would he say no and be thinking that was weird and I was an odd ball for asking making for that very uncomfortable and awkward kind of feeling that seems to hang around for an eternity !!??