My wife has to really be in the mood for me to go down on her. She can't believe I love it, she thinks of the area as gross. And she's ticklish if not properly warmed up. But, she has said she's glad I enjoy it cause when she's in the mood she loves it!
I just wish she was in the mood for it more often.
Also, she does not like to go down on me, but she will sometimes and is great at it.