It takes time
Agree with what the other guys say. A little alcohol, plus directed foreplay, with you telling her how it turns you on. It’s amazing how getting a woman close enough to orgasm, then backing off will open her up. I know that’s bad, but the end result is worth it.
This is something that takes time. Getting lucky the first time is unrealistic. A little at a time, sometimes backing off for a while before trying again.
What I also did was build some sexy roleplay into our sex routine. Tell her you want her to play a horny wife at a party and you’ll play a horny husband also at the party. If it isn’t “her” and “you” she may open up. Mine did. I saw how hot she got pretending she was another wife. She was saying all sorts of stuff as I pounded away about not telling her husband how good it was. Hmmm.
Other scenarios based on what you think may have happened also will work. We also did some scenes with her meeting a guy while out shopping and giving him a blowjob in his car, or going to a local hotel.
Whenever we travel and stay at a hotel, we do one where she goes to the bar first and I come later and “pick her up” and we go to a room.
Good luck and let us know the results.
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