First let me say that I'm so old that cougars aren't interested. Most attention for me these days comes from the turkey vultures.
Secondly, maybe you ought to look at the adult beverage consumption you partake in. Twice it's led you to conflict.
Third, J does plain vanilla sex and K does has a more aggressive take charge sex which you liked. A little secret about women and men. Women find it impossible to go backwards financially which doesn't apply here. However men cannot go backwards once they've experienced better sex. You won't be able to return to J and be satisfied anymore.
Leave J alone and move on. Be prepared for the sling back effect from J though. She'll make her way back at least once. Very dangerous for you.
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