I had an 13 year affair with a wife of a minister in the Baptist church. She loved sex and dancing and drinking but just felt neglected.
I felt bad but the wife was uninterested after birthing for about 7 years. By then it was too late
Didn’t look for the opportunity ….no but it was offered and it went to a great weekly rendezvous. But a somewhat amicable departure back to reality made it bearable. She was a great partner. Bad timing.