Wife’s Sexting Buddy
My wife has a need for external validation that she is desirable, so she is always flirting with guys—usually online with guys she already knows in person and that are younger than she is.
She instigates the friendly messaging and lets it escalate. Last year it got to the point with one guy that they were sexting daily for a month, including exchanging pictures.
I had a feeling something was up when she wanted sex every other day instead of the normal once a week. I eventually found the messages and confronted her. She admitted to it and since has said it is over, though I’ve seen evidence it’s probably continuing and I can tell that this time she is emotionally stuck on the guy. Knowing she sent him pictures not just for the adventure but also because she “loves” him sucks.
If she had been open about it and let me be involved, I’d probably be more turned on and less hurt, especially if that emotional connection weren’t there.
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