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Originally Posted by Kmaxx2525
My wife and I got invited to go a nudist resort for the first time with another married couple we've been friends with for a few years.
Neither of us have ever been to one of these resorts. My wife and I have frequented many natural hot springs, and have gone with this couple twice. Apart from changing outside, we weren't naked with the couple at all. However, my wife and I have been naked many times at the hot springs by ourselves and around a few strangers, and are comfortable.
I have a few sincere questions I figured this community may be able to help with.
My wife is reluctant to go because she is afraid seeing mutual friends naked would make things weird going forward. We are very comfortable with this couple, however, and this would be strictly platonic plans.
Has anyone had friendships affected positively or negatively by seeing/being around one another nude?
The husband is a bigger guy than I am, and I am definitely a "grower" as they say. I'm worried about being embarrassed in front of his wife, and mine, if the penis size is largely different while flaccid and relaxed. Is that a normal concern and one easily gotten over once we're all naked?
Any thoughts on how I can make my wife more comfortable? Again, it's not the nudity aspect, but the nude with friends aspect.
Any other thoughts or helpful advice?
Thanks!
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If your wife is reluctant it’s for a reason. And if it doesn’t work out to her liking, it will be very awkward in more ways than one. Between you and your wife and between both of you and them.
You want to know how to make your wife more comfortable, but you don’t seem very comfortable about it either.
You are worried he might outsize you and embarrass you in front of both your wife and his. If he is, you are going to have a lot more questions. Somebody else can’t answer how long it will take you to get over it, and if you are already concerned, you might not get over it. And that might affect the two of you.
You aren’t ready for it.