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Originally Posted by Kmaxx2525
Any thoughts on how I can make my wife more comfortable? Again, it's not the nudity aspect, but the nude with friends aspect.
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It's a "common" concern. We have friends we've invited to the resort; but they (specifically the BF) chickened out because of his concerns about the "aftermath" of us having seen each other naked. "How do you "come back" from that?" I've personally found the answer to be: quite easily, actually.
What's the actual "aftermath"? It's often
just knowing you've seen each other naked. As Anonjohn mentioned, if the experience at the resort has been non-sexual; that's all there is to it. Sure, they're going to know more "intimate details" about your anatomy; but if your friends are genuine nudists, it's not going to redefine how they "see" you back in the real world. It's just "extra information." You will probably find that your "post-resort" interactions remain exactly the same; except maybe for the occasional joke about having "seen each other naked."
I assume the resort is C/O. Look it up online. C/O resorts allows newbies to stay covered; so if your wife is a bit reticent to be naked right away in front of your friends, she can always take a "gradual" approach by bringing/wearing a sarong. And taking it off when she's ready. Women tend to support each other in these "situations"; so I'm sure your friend's wife will do the same and help alleviate some of her anxieties.
My wife and I are friends with an old co-worker of mine we ran into at our resort. Sure, it was weird at first; for about 10 minutes. When we meet up "in the real world", you'd never know we regularly hang out naked at a resort. Unlike most non-nudist friends, we all know the women are shaven, what their boobs look like; or which guy is "bigger" and whose labia is "thicker." But still, it doesn't even figure into our "real world" interactions. There's no "weirdness" or tension at all. I expect it would be the same for you.
Hope this helps! I think it'll be fun.