Thread: [Non Fiction Stories - First Time] Advice for First Time Nudist Resort with Friends
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Old 01-19-2024, 06:52 PM
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The anxiety about seeing someone you know is based on embarassment - what will they think of me?
With the unspoken presumption that they are clothed and you are naked. But that's not the case. They aren't going to tell everyone they saw you there, because that would disclose they were there naked too.

The most likely outcome of meeting someone you know is that you now have something more in common with an acquaintance who then becomes a friend - isn't that a good thing?

It only becomes weird if it is sexual - which, in a genuine naturist/nudist environment (ie not swinging), it is not. People who have not experienced this have difficulty believing this - until they experience it themselves. We are on a porn site and people's brains are in porn fantasy mode, so accepting this is even more difficult here.

Did you not discuss these anxieties, in some detail, with your friends when they invited you?

Have you checked the websites of bona-fide naturist/nudist organizations (eg affiliated with the INF or AANR) which have extensive explanations which show that your fears are, in practice, completely unfounded - although common anxieties.
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