The secret to satisfying anal sex is LOTS of high quality lube and you need to tell your man not to go full medieval from the get-go.
He should enter you very slowly and stopping now and then to allow your anal muscles to adapt. Once he's past your sphincter muscle he should come to a full stop, wait about a minute, continue to enter slowly and then try some slow strokes until you're more at ease.
I've used this method with all my partners when we first tried anal and after several sessions they actually begin to enjoy it. Specially when they rub their clit at the same time, which they all say makes for some wonderful orgasms.
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