Wife/partner talking about other people's bodies
When my wife and I were still dating, she went on a vacation with a good friend. When she got back, she mentioned that during their stay, her friend was often naked in their room. And she added, without me asking, that her friend was completely bald, and she could see "everything." They way she described her friend's pussy was completely "matter-of -fact", like if she was describing her dress or a pimple on her nose. I was like "Ok then"...probably not realizing she was giving food for my imagination. She even added that her "big boobs" were flopping around; as if that was a "bad thing" lol!
Some time later we went on her first trip to the nude beach. After the fact, she made some remark about the various penis sizes she'd seen. Adding that I had the best looking one (certainly to humor me). I was like: wait a minute! "You've looked at ALL the dicks!?" She just gave me a surprised look, as if to say: "Duh...of course I did!"
That was just the beginning, as we became social nudists. She was looking at one well-endowed lady one time, turned to me and said: "I don't know if I'd like having tits that big..." One of our friends clearly did not do a good job shaving one day, and my wife would later make a remark about the woman's "patchy pussy hair." She knows exactly who at the resort is circumcised and who isn't, who has a micropenis and who is packing, etc... She is clearly looking at everyone's tits and dick/pussy.
There is definitely a double-standard there. God forbids I talk to her about someone's pussy; I get a raised eyebrow or a huff. But for some reason she finds it ok for her to talk about it.
Just wondering if that's just my wife or is it common for women...
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