I will try to answer both as best I can. As I said earlier, I believe in never say never. I was not unhappy with our married life prior to my wife disclosing her "secret" I'll call it fetish of exposing herself. I had become accustomed to our sex routine and life.
We have and had discussed boundaries. When she touched herself the first time while exposing herself to someone I was really uncomfortable. As you can see I got past that issue. Others touching was another. I am not past that boundry. Of course I see the hypocrisy in this as Xavier pretty much touched every intimate area of my wife. We both see that as a one time occurrence. Who knows. Even my wife told me that when sliding into my brother, he accidentally got a hand full of tit. I guess that's another hypocritical excuse saying accidental.
I am not really sure where this will take us but in the foreseeable future I am happy to support her in her exhibitionist desires. Like I said before it has changed our relationship tremendously. We are closer, more intimate, honest about feelings and desires, and overall happy where we are currently.
We have discussed her suggestion of sex with dad watching. I asked her why. Her response was just another way of being exposed and she would like to be caught. We even discussed her just getting caught masturbating.
To answer about dad. My dad has only at best hinted at how much he enjoys seeing my wife naked. I know he enjoys it because of all the times he happens to walk by at the appropriate times. The difference is now he is comfortable with what happens. Just like sitting in the bedroom talking to my naked wife as she is going through her post shower routines and getting dressed. He has never said anything to her about her nudity. She sees dad as a game to practice on. She has ever since we were engaged. Neither would feel comfortable crossing any boundry other than just what's happening now.
She told me that the temperature will be in the 90's this weekend and rather than go camping we should go back to visit dad. They talked yesterday and he told her he left the slide in case we wanted to come back before it started getting cold.
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