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Originally Posted by PalmsMan
TBH I find the implied hypocrisy behind this annoying. I'm not knocking londondude, but the philosophy behind the distaste for male arousal.
No one cares about female genital dampness or parting quim lips. But if a guy pays a nearby female the compliment of a chubby or an erection it is considered inappropriate.
Strangely this applies less to couples than men alone. For example, when I would visit London's Rios Spa alone, I knew it was wise not to be erect in the public areas. OTAH when my wife and I were there on Saturday couples even I was often erect with my wife as were other guys with their partners.
A couple together looks safer, I guess?
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...they are meant to enable societies to function. A man running around with an erection will cause a lot of the women there to feel uncomfortable, and at worst think of ****. That's just a fact of life, and probably simply associated with the fact that women are on average weaker and less able to defend themselves. In contrast, a woman running around looking visibly aroused is not intimidating. So, if the idea is that the spa should be a place for relaxation, people need to feel safe, and then men must be prohibited from waving a boner around. Fair? Probably not. Necessary? Definately!!!
/KG