[Watchmen]

For my wife and I it isn’t so much what I have got her to do, but rather I have been very clear to support her embrace and expression of her own sexuality. Sadly in so many cultures women are conditioned to be ashamed of liking sex or enjoying any sexual expression.

My wife likes the chance of being seen naked or in revealing clothing in public. For a long time this embarrassed her and she tried to hide it. It has taken a lot of reinforcement on my part to make sure she knows that I not only accept this aspect of her, I celebrate it.

Her journey is still in process, but over the last several years she has enjoyed (and I have enjoyed as well) things like skinny dipping in a pool where a lucky neighbor likely could see her. Wearing revealing clothing, or no clothing on hikes, not closing the curtains or blinds at hotels, getting naked on hotel balconies, and naked car rides.

It has been a lot of fun, and I have been very careful not to push her outside of her comfort zone and make sure she knows that I support whatever she wants to do.